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豆 豆

職業
興趣
如果花开了就感激,
如果分开了就放弃,
陪你在路上满心欢喜,
是因为风景美丽,
不是因为你……
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3/6/2008

清平调

云想衣裳花想容,春风拂槛露华浓。
若非群玉山头见,会向瑶台月下逢。

一枝红艳露凝香,云雨巫山枉断肠。
借问汉宫谁得似,可怜飞燕倚新妆。

名花倾国两相欢,长得君王带笑看。
解释春风无限恨,沉香亭北倚阑干。
 
 
A面:有时候真不得不佩服自己的记忆力,高中时喜欢的诗居然现在还记得。
B面:这些天冒着不时发生的余震整理过往的物品时常常会不经意地发现一些曾经的记忆碎片。
      但是,碎片终究只能是碎片,有些该记得的却早就遗忘了。
      看来之前在某篇网志宣称的“选择性失忆”原来一直被本人贯彻得淋漓尽致。
 
真相:没有栀子花香的毕业始终是遗憾的,上上周为了觅香专程回到了财大,才发现本科时让我如此厌恶的校园,如今却使人难以忘怀。很多人忘不了某个地方或某段时间,往往是忘不了曾经在那里存在过的人和发生过的事,这其实只是借口,每个人忘不了的始终只是自己短暂的青春和单纯的日子,那些人和事不过是载体罢了。
    这3年我所得到的远远超过了我原先的想象,不仅仅是那一纸尚算漂亮的简历,而是加速度地彻头彻尾的成长。失去的已经失去,成长的代价人人都有,面对未来,最佳的做法永远是轻装上阵。往者不可谏,来者犹可追。
     
 
 
 
 
9/5/2008

咖啡


想喝咖啡
什么咖啡
最对你味
选这一杯

选那一杯
都嫌不对

热的冰的

甜的苦的
都不对味

想这一个
想那一个
都嫌不对
帅的丑的
老的少的
全都不配
只想找个能够适合我的品味
终於找到一个
偏偏不喝咖啡

26/9/2007

Principles

It seems that I finally got the chance, time and mood in particular to "run" my space again. Nearly about half an month since I updated my space last time, which is also the longest period that I have not write about something new to share with my friends. I was suddenly lost in an endless circle even to the degree that I don't know what to begin with. So I decide to start in English which can be seen as a suitable substitute to express my feeling.  

 I am actually wander around the campus recently, not sure what will happen next moment, have not any tiny idea about tomorrow. What I know clearly is that I need to do sth. to change the current situation. I was turned down immediately as soon as the employs learned that I was looking for a temporary job. Damn it! I will not retreat no matter what their arrogant manner is. Some of them with kind-hearted told me you are not suitable for working for me, your degree is too high, it is simply a waste of human resources to hire you work for us. What's more, you can not learn anything through working for us. Your master degree is too high! Fuck master degree!

 

See! That‘s what happened to me for the last few days. And sitting in the library, I am now watching the screen aimlessly. I have never expected that I would be reduced to such a dilemma that not knowing what I am doing for. But I feel no shame at all in disclosing my recent tough situation. I should have courage to face all of these. I need to identify what should be my best choice and what I need to do in order to get rid of this disappointing reality. Though I don’t know when the situation could be better, I still expect I would got chance, I know I will win back all of the things I once lost. Keep fighting, never giving up and having dream; the three principles will guide me in the days to come. I am sure there is a big come-back waiting for me out there, what I need is more efforts as well as more patience. No one knows what will happen, let’s just wait and see. In the vibrate world with full of surprise, every dog has its day.

                                                                                                                                                                                           

29/3/2007

幸福总在转角处

曾几何时,我们虚荣过,幻想过,偏执地为狭隘的目标奋斗过.

待到重新回头看待这一切时,觉得很多事情都云淡风轻了....
11/2/2007

就急功近利怎么着?就不成熟怎么着?!

功:成功;近:眼前的。急于求成,贪图眼前的成效和利益。
急功近利的含义就是做任何事情都想一步到位,没有耐心;贪图眼前的成效和利益,没有长远的规划。急功近利表现在心态上就是态度浮躁,认识浅薄。
急功近利 :急于求得成功,只图近期得利,形容目光短浅、胸无大志
疯狂追逐名利、急功近利的浮躁社会
提到"躁"字,人们马上会联想到躁动、躁进、急躁、浮躁,这些都含有急功近利的意思。 
一个充盈着骄躁之气的人,怎么可能保持谦虚、谨慎、艰苦奋斗的作风呢?
   人的心灵要保持清净,而不要旁骛太多,没了章法和智慧。对一个人而言,不急功近利最主要是应具有静心的境界,淡泊名利,慎独谨行。为官者静心了,就会更加珍视和用好手中的权力,更加奉守道德和法律,拒贪污受贿于千里之外;学者静心了,就会更加心无旁骛、潜心做学问,宁可“呆”一些,“穷”一些,也不去做抄袭剽窃他人研究成果等丑事;文艺家静心了,就不会心浮气躁,粗制滥造胡编乱写,就不至于变成文化垃圾的生产者。
  不难想象,一个远离乃至摈弃了急功近利的人,才有可能是一个纯净的人;一个远离乃至摈弃了急功近利的社会,才有可能是一个纯净的社会。(完全鬼话!)